The answer to the review's final question — "If you could say one thing to someone struggling with the same concern?" — was
this.
Words from us and words from someone who has actually been through it carry different weight.
So today, rather than my own words, I wanted to pass along the patient's line exactly as he wrote it.
Summer comes every year.
The question is whether you will stand in the same place, in front of the same clothes, repeating the same hesitation.
Or whether this summer will be a little different.
If this post has lightened the weight of that hesitation even a little,
that is enough. The rest of the answer, in the end, lies within you.