They Came with Family Because They Were Scared

Author : Dr. Young-jin SimOctober 1, 2026 at 06:48 PM 0
Truman Customer Story Column

They Came with Family Because They Were Scared

Far more people come to gynecomastia consultations alone. Because it is a concern that takes a long time to bring up, it is common for people to have gone without telling even their family. The person I am introducing today came with their family.

 
 
Explaining When Someone Comes Along

"I was scared, so I came with my family, and they explained things well and I felt at ease."

When someone comes along, I do not finish the explanation all at once but divide it up. To the patient I explain the extent of the surgery and the recovery process, and to the person accompanying them I separately explain how to get home on the day of surgery and what they will need to help with for a few days. Right after surgery it is hard to use your arms much, so you will need a hand with putting on and taking off clothes or lifting heavy things.

Writing that you were scared is nothing to hide. What is frightening differs from person to person, so the consultation begins by asking to distinguish whether it is the pain, the anesthesia, or the result. If pain is the worry, I first explain up to what point a sensation is part of the normal recovery process and beyond what line you should contact us; if the result is the worry, we talk about the amount of tissue to remove and the amount to leave. The single word "scared" alone does not tell me which to explain.

They Came with Family Because They Were Scared

 
 
For Cost, We Check National Health Insurance First

"I was worried about the cost of surgery, but the insurance coverage applied well, which was good."

Gynecomastia surgery is covered by national health insurance. Once examination and tests confirm that it qualifies as gynecomastia, coverage applies according to the set criteria. So if you are putting it off because you are worried about cost, it is quicker to get an examination and first check whether you meet the coverage criteria. The judgment varies with the amount and degree of tissue, so this check is possible only through an examination.

 
 
I Slept, and When I Woke Up

"I slept, and when I woke up the surgery was over, so I don't really remember anything."

Gynecomastia surgery is performed under sedation. All that remains for the patient is the moment of closing your eyes in the operating room and the moment of opening them in the recovery room, and no memory of the time during surgery remains. Some people worry about having no memory, but I think this stretch being blank is the better side, in that the surgery does not remain as a burdensome experience.

 
 
Exercise, in Order

For what they wanted to do after surgery, they wrote working out hard to build their body. It is the answer most often written by people who have had gynecomastia surgery. However, there is an order. During the period of wearing the compression garment, start with light walking, and increase upper-body exercise step by step after your progress has been checked. Raising the intensity in a hurry can make swelling last longer or strain the surgical site.

To others with the same concern, they left the words to get a consultation instead of spending time agonizing. This is the experience this person went through, and whether surgery is needed is something to judge after confirming your condition through an examination. That said, on getting a consultation, I think the same.

Read next — Customer Story Column

All Customer Story Columns →
Dr. Young-jin Sim
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Myeongdong Branch · Urologist · Master of Medicine
# Detail, Perfected# Sincere Consultation# A Choice Without Regret
Key Background
  • · Board Certified Urologist / M.S. in Medicine
  • · M.D., Kyungpook National University School of Medicine
View Full Profile ›
"A doctor proven by results and remembered for sincerity — a finish where the detail is different."
"Surgery is a matter of technique, but caring for a patient is always a matter of the heart. I explain not only the result but the process honestly, and think it through together with the patient so they can choose after fully understanding. Through years of male body contouring and men's surgery, one standard has not changed: to take responsibility from before the operation through afterwards, so that the patient does not regret this choice. That, to me, is what medical care is."
  • · Residency, Samsung Medical Center, Seoul
  • · Fellowship, Gachon University Gil Hospital
  • · Member, Korean Society for Sexual Medicine and Andrology (KSSMA)
  • · Member, Korean Society of Obesity and Body Contouring
  • · Member, Korean Prostate Society (KPS)
  • · Member, Korean Association of Breast Surgery (KABS)
  • · Member, International Society of Obesity and Body Contouring
  • · Former Director, Trueman Men's Clinic Gangnam
  • · Member, Korean Association of Urogenital Tract Infection and Inflammation (KAUTII) / Korean Society of Urological Infection